Being in the company of a constant complainer can be very frustrating.
How To Tell Someone To Stop Complaining?
It eats into your inner peace, creates negativity within you, and annoys you to your core. It penalises you for no fault of yours.
But complaints damage the complainer even more. Complaining too much makes them a negative person. It prevents them from being stable & productive.
Thus, if you care for someone who complains all the time, you must help them out. You need to ensure that complaints don't ruin your mood and their life.
To help the chronic complainer, you first need to listen to them. See if their complaints are genuine and if they are, cater to them.
Even if their complaints don't have any substance, you still need to be sympathetic. You need to show that you understand. You need to show your support.
If the complaints still do not go away, you need to tell them that their complaints are hurting them big time.
If the complainer is close to you, you can also tell them that it pains you to see them in that situation. Tell them that you want to see them happy & positive.
They may not be willing to change their complaining ways for themselves but when they realise that it's affecting others badly, they would stop complaining.
When you turn the complainer's complaints into responsibility, you have not only protected yourself from complaints but have also set the complainer free for life.
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