Being in the company
of a constant complainer can be very frustrating.
How To Tell Someone
To Stop Complaining?
It eats into your inner peace, creates negativity within you, and annoys
you to your core. It penalises you for no fault of yours.
But complaints damage
the complainer even
more. Complaining too much makes them a negative person. It
prevents them from
Thus, if you care for someone who complains
all the time, you must help them out. You need to ensure that complaints don't ruin your mood and their life.
To help the chronic complainer, you first
need to listen to them. See if their complaints are genuine and if
they are, cater to them.
Even if their complaints don't have any substance, you still need to be sympathetic. You need to show that you
understand. You need to show your support.
If the complaints still do not go away, you need to tell them that their complaints are hurting them big time.
If the complainer is
close to you, you can
also tell them that it
pains you to see them
in that situation.
Tell them that you
want to see them
happy & positive.
They may not be
willing to change their
complaining ways for themselves but when they
realise that it's affecting others badly, they would stop complaining.
When you turn the complainer's complaints into responsibility, you have not only protected yourself from complaints but have also set the complainer free for life.
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