How To Not Be A People Pleaser

Doing what you like will make you the king. But doing things to please others would get you lost forever.

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Stop pleasing people. The first step is to realise you are a people pleaser. Observe yourself closely.

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Give up the longing to receive any fanciful compliments or favours from the people your try to please.

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Work hard and carve out a reliable identity of your own. Become someone whom everyone truly admires.

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We try to please others only when we don’t deserve admiration. Such fake compliments don’t take you anywhere.

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Instead of pleasing the wrong people, help the ones who really need it. It will give you your true identity.

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